So, take a minute and let's get it back together. Seriously.
Things look really bad sometimes, but that is all that is true. They "look" bad. Actually, everything is not what it appears. Your world looks terrible sometimes, but God remains God. He is still sovereign over all things and He still loves you.
Your life begins with that truth. To "get it back together," start with God. Take a minute and think about who God is and what God has done and what God has promised. Consider what God is doing:
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ
with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places, even as he chose us in him before
the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him.
Ephesians 1:3-4. If you are God's child, then you have been "chosen" to be "holy and blameless before him." Notice that you were not chosen to try to be holy and blameless, but to be holy and blameless. God will make you to be holy and blameless before him. In Jude, you are reminded that God is "able to present you blameless" before the throne.
So, in getting it all back together, start where God is. He is the one who is able and willing and determined to change your life. Let's start by getting in sync with him.